Understanding Body Language

Body language has always been important in determining what goes unsaid while communicating with others. It is a clear indicator of whether people actually mean what they say, and we are able to gauge the stance of a person by his/her body language. Understanding body language is important in communication with people who are part of different aspects of our lives. Whether it is a personal relationship or a professional relationship, knowing the intricacies of body language is essential. Not only does it help you understand the opposite person, it helps the opposite person understand a little about you. While it may not be a sure shot method of completely being able to understand someone, it definitely has more value than the verbal proclamations made by people.

Studies have shown that understanding men’s body language is easier for women, than understanding women’s body language by men. This is because women are more receptive to various body language signals, and are able to mark out inconsistencies in verbal communication and body language. On the other hand, men are known for their desire for everything to be explained verbally, than through gestures and body language. For detail follow category Body Language.

Flirting Body Language

Body language flirting signs can either indicate romantic interest or may be sexual overtures. Though body language flirting signs of men and women are different, there are some signs that are shown by both. Flirtatious gestures can be exhibited not only through one’s body postures, but also through one’s facial expressions and eye contacts. So, here are some signs that may indicate that the person whom you are having a conversation with is attracted to you.

Body Language Flirting Signs #01
Eyes convey a lot of things that even words cannot. So, one of the most common as well as the most important body language flirting signs is the eye contact. A person who is interested in you, not only will look at you, but will hold your eye contact for a few minutes. If you have observed a woman sitting across the room making frequent eye contacts with you, chances are there that she is interested in you. Apart from this, raised eyebrows can also be the sign of flirting.

Body Language Flirting Signs #02
Smiling is one of the common male and female body language flirting signs. A pleasant smile which reveals the upper as well as the lower teeth is a sign that explains that he/she is pleased to be in the other person’s company. Laughter is also another sign that shows that the person sitting opposite to you is interested in you. If your companion is laughing at all your jokes and one liners, even though they are not very funny, chances are that he/she finds you attractive.

Body Language Flirting Signs #03
It has been observed that men and women who indulge in flirting are seen to fiddle a lot with their hands. For instance, women are likely to play with their earrings and necklaces while conversing with men they are interested in. Also, some women indulge in flicking their hair or may be twirling and twisting their strands in front of the person they like. This applies to the men folk too. Usually, while having a conversation with women they are interested in, men try to straighten their hair or straighten their neckties like they are unconsciously trying to look well groomed. It has also been observed that men constantly touch their face while looking or talking to the woman they are interested in.

Body Language Flirting Signs #04
Many times, while talking to the person of the opposite sex, men as well as women try to mirror the other person, though usually in a subconscious way. If you have observed two lovers talking in a restaurant, you may observe that they are mirroring each others body language as well as body positions. This is one of the very common male as well as female body language flirting signs. Other than this, leaning towards the person and lightly touching the other person’s shoulder, arm or knee are also some obvious sign of flirting.

Female Body Language

Reading female body language is not only a laborious task, but at times, impossible. It is truly said that woman is the most complicated creature created by God and believe it or not, she is herself confused of her complicated character at times.

Female Body Language Signals

It is true that a woman’s character is lined with many layers. She is vivid and unpredictable. She is vivacious, puzzling, cunning and crafty. She can be highly brave and at the same time, vulnerable. Though it is true that it is nearly impossible to predict and conjecture her actions and reactions, close observation can definitely guide you to understand the trends of female body language. Actions speak louder than words and this seems to be true for women if you can follow the hints embedded in her body language.

Look at Me!
They can go to any lengths to get noticed. This is one of the primary and most distinct female body language signals. A girls overreacts to grab the attention of the guy she likes. For example, she would laugh a little too loudly and make it a point that you are noticing her. Now, here comes the twist in the tail. It is possible that she would ignore you completely and behave as if you are invisible. Don’t be disappointed, she is a woman and her trademark is complexity. It is just a game that she likes to play with herself – ‘the difficult the better’.

The Touch!
An interested woman would definitely try to gain proximity with the man of her liking. The touch of a finger, slapping on the shoulder or a whisper in the ear, she is definitely interested in getting closer. She would sit pointing her legs towards you and make all possible efforts to give you a little extra importance, without making it too obvious. Women just love to add spice to a probable fling.